Things to Know When Your Student Joins Orchestra

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Have you ever felt like a fish out of water when your child has expressed an interest in joining some club, sport or activity? That’s exactly how I felt five years ago when Madison decided she wanted to join the school orchestra. Neither of my brothers nor I participated in the school music programs so this was all new to me. Since that time, we’ve learned a lot by trial and error. Some of those errors were ours, some belonged to others. I asked some orchestra friends what they wish they knew when their child joined orchestra and we came up with lots of ideas. Hopefully these tips will help you be more prepared for the excitement that is to come!

Band and orchestra are different

When Madison first said she wanted to play the cello, I had a question regarding the program. I looked on the district website, found the contact information for the band director and called. What I quickly learned is once you’re ready to dedicate to an instrument, you join the appropriate program. Cellos are not part of the band. As such, I was directed to the director of the orchestra program. I felt like an idiot, but have since found myself correcting MANY adults who haven’t made the delineation between such programs. Orchestras are generally small and usually consist of string instruments only. Symphonies are larger and include string instruments, brass, woodwind and percussion. Pretty much all the things you might associate with a band. Which, by the way, is different. Bands, on the other hand, don’t have string instruments. Are you confused yet? Then we won’t even discuss all the variations of each such as marching band, philharmonic orchestra, pops ensemble, jazz band, etc.

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Instruments in Beginning Orchestra

There are four instruments typically: Violin, Viola, Cello and Bass. However, you may hear about Violin 1 and Violin 2. They aren’t different instruments, just different music parts. One other interesting thing to note in case you’re looking to surprise your child with sheet music. Remember learning about treble clef? Not every instrument uses it. I went to buy Madison some music when she started and quickly learned that not all music is the same… her cello uses bass clef. Oops.

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Rent or Borrow an Instrument but Invest in a Stand

Not every child is going to love playing. Some are going to love it, but want to try a different instrument. It’s more common than you care to admit. In addition, instruments are scaled to the size of the child so most won’t be ready for a full size instrument for at least a couple years. Lease programs factor this in and allow you to swap sizes as needed. If finances are an issue, ask. Schools often have instruments available for rent or to borrow. Some local symphonies even offer scholarships, grants or provide some type of financial assistance to ensure all kids who are interested in learning an instrument have the opportunity. While we don’t encouraging purchasing an instrument off the get-go, they’ll need a music stand. There are super cheap folding ones or you can spend a couple extra bucks for one that holds up. Spend the extra couple bucks… it won’t fall apart as fast.

Download a Chromatic Tuner App

There are smartphone apps that will allow you to tune your child’s instrument. As they transport it from school to home and back, it’s bound to get out of tune. It’s important for the instrument to be in-tune so they know what notes are supposed to sound like. Give them time and they’ll figure out how to use it themselves. With practice will be able to tune it by ear.

No Cheering at Orchestra Concerts (AKA Orchestra Etiquette)

There is a whole new world of etiquette that orchestra will introduce into your life. Here are a couple examples.

  • Stay in your seat. We’ve grown up celebrating our children’s successes on and off the field, but an orchestra performance is no place for hooting and hollering. They work hard to teach the musicians to blend together and limit distractions.
  • Stay in your seat. Yes, you want to take pictures or video and that’s awesome. Unfortunately, so does everyone else and if you stand to photograph or record, you will be blocking someone’s view. If you’re part of a school program, they’ll likely let you take pictures and video, but if you’re attending a professional performance, any type of recording device is off limits.
  • Stay in your seat. I know this is the third time I said it, but it’s important. It also applies to restroom breaks. It’s customary to wait until the end of a “song” before you leave to use the restroom. When the orchestra is performing, everyone should be attentive. In this case it isn’t about being in someone’s way, but rather being a distraction to the performers themselves.
  • Don’t clap. Whaattt? That’s right. Just because the performers pause doesn’t mean it’s the end of the piece. Sometimes there are multiple parts (movements) to a single piece and you should hold your applause until the very end.
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Orchestra Dress Code

I’m *that* parent that doesn’t let my kids wear whatever they want. The orchestra directors provide a dress code not just so everyone looks alike, but so it doesn’t distract the audience. Dress code is typically white or black elbow-length shirt, black slacks/skirt, socks/tights, closed-toe shoes. As you look at the performers, you see their faces and instruments and the rest falls into the background. From head to toe (including shoes and socks), the musicians should be dressed appropriately and here’s why. Picture the orchestra filled with dress code then someone decides not to wear black socks. THAT will catch your eye. When I first heard this rule, I followed it but was amazed by the number of parents who didn’t.

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Where They Sit Means Something

While instructors of new musicians will often randomly seat the children, as they get more experienced where they sit means something. If you’ve ever heard the term “First chair” then you already recognize it’s a position of importance. The top player in each instrument section is placed in the first chair, the second in the second chair. The order of placement filters from the front of each section to the back with the most powerful performers at the front. First chair violin is known as the Concertmaster. Each first chair of other instruments are referred to as Principal. So if they come home telling you they are sitting in the first chair, it’s kind of a big deal so celebrate.

Insist They Practice; Private Lessons Matter

In the beginning it will be difficult. It isn’t going to sound like music and you’re going to have the same “Hot Cross Buns” song running through your head over and over. They might not feel like they are making progress when really they are. Ask them questions about how their instructor told them to hold their instrument. Encourage them to focus on doing at least one thing correctly. Then another. Teachers will say that “xx minutes of practice per day are encouraged” so use the teacher as your scapegoat. “The teacher says…” was our excuse for insisting the girls practice. 15 minutes a day is a good number and the practice will get them to the next level quicker. Breaking through to being able to play “fun” music helps keep them interested. As an example, Madison wants to practice her cello when she is upset, needs to focus or before working on any of her homework. If they say they need a new music lesson book, applaud. They’re under $10 each on Amazon and a new book means your child is making progress! While you expect them to put in the time, you should be willing to invest in private lessons. The schools usually offer individual lessons during school, but also have instructors available for lessons outside of school. Even if you only opt for a lesson every couple of weeks or once a month, having that outside influence will help instill the importance practice and commitment.

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Take Orchestra Field Trips

A young football player is going to understand the rules of the game if they’ve been watching it on TV or attending games. Music is no different so embrace opportunities to give your child a better understanding of their new interest. Tickets to attend the symphony is an excellent gift idea! Check with your local symphonies for students promotions and discounts. Even attending the orchestra performances of older students can offer a great deal of benefit. These experiences might also encourage your child to learn to compose.

Make Them Commit, but Let Them Quit

We don’t want our kids to be unhappy, so listen to them when they say they want to quit. If music isn’t their thing then forcing them into a life of dedication, lessons and performances will make them miserable. With that said, they committed to joining so give them permission to quit once they have finished the current school year. They are part of a team and emphasize the importance of following through. After a year’s worth of performances, bonding, learning new music and getting the hang of things they may decide they really do love it… or hate it. The end of the year is the time to re-evaluate.

School music programs are being cut from schools left and right, but we’ve been fortunate enough to be part of a school district that puts an emphasis on the arts. I’m so glad they do because it has truly enriched my life.

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28 thoughts on “Things to Know When Your Student Joins Orchestra

  1. I no longer have children at home, but I was in band first as a trumpet player as far back as when I was in grade school, all the way through high school (yes, band, not orchestra!) In my final two years of high school, we had a LOT of trumpet players, but not many trombone or baritone horn players. So my band director worked with me and taught me to play those two instruments! The trombone was for jazz band, and the baritone was for the regular band. I was able to use treble instead of bass clef, so the fingering on the valves was the same as on the trumpet.

  2. I don’t have kids but these seem like great tips. It is always good to be well informed when starting something new so that you don’t waste a bunch of money. Always do your research.

  3. This is an excellent post. Make thes commit but let them quit is super important I think. I agree if they are part of a team you keep at it because otherwise you let someone on that team down. I had no idea dress was so specific. never really paid attention but it makes sense. I agree with you on that also. Good for her for sticking with it and knowing what she likes and wants to pursue.

  4. I was in Orchestra in HIgh School as the lead Timpanist and have contacted my Orchestra teacher in the past years. Her passion, appreciation and education of such amazing music has stayed with me as I continue to promote the music in my home with my daughters. I hope one of them picks up a stringed instrument as I find them amazing. If I had my choice, it would be the cello 😉

    Congratulations on your daughters taking part in such an amazing experience. The friends and experiences they make in their music class (which spans grades) will last a lifetime.

    1. Thank you for the insight, Brad. Neither my husband nor I were part of our school music programs so we’ve wondered how this would impact their futures. Our cellist recently landed first chair for the local youth symphony and is leaning toward music as a career! We’re currently scoping out universities with strong music programs.

  5. So much I didn’t know about how being in an orchestra. It really is learning about a whole new world with all kinds of decisions that have to be considered. Glad when my son decided to play trumpet in the school band that we rented since it lasted only a year.

  6. It sounds like you’re a very supportive parent. I studied music from a young age myself, when my hands grew big enough to be allowed to take lessons, all the way through university. It’s a passion of mine, and something I’m lucky to have in my life. One thing I would suggest on the practicing every day is to possibly become slightly more flexible as your child gets older. You know your child best, but I know for me, there were times where I got into ruts and wanted to quit because the music was more of a chore than a joy. When I could take a breather and just tread water, my inspiration would often come rushing back after a short while and I would go in a different direction of practice and learning. This isn’t really the way to become first chair in the major symphony orchestra, but much like in athletics, most young people don’t realistically reach this elite level of career, and sometimes it can be better to keep the love for the craft than merely the skill.

    1. Great advice, Elle. We’ve actually done exactly that – relax the rules as they’ve gotten older and more responsible. The practice is important, but so are many other things including schoolwork. Practicing their music has actually become a stress reliever for them and something they like to do as a breather from studying for a test or doing homework.

  7. Thanks for the advice to ask what their instructor told them about properly holding the instrument when they practice at home. My daughter really wants to start taking private violin lessons so she can join orchestra at her school. I’m glad I read your article because following your tips should her get the most value from her instruction!

  8. Thank you for sharing with us your experience and useful advice! I do have a question to ask. My daughter is 7, just passed an audition for a youth orchestra, and will be starting rehearsals in September. She is supposed to bring her violin and her own music stand, and perhaps some pencils and a water bottle in addition to bringing home new sheet music ALL BY HERSELF. I need to get her a bag so she can carry all of the above. Her violin case is a backpack and won’t hold anything other than her violin. Should I go with a tote bag (shoulder) or a messenger bag (cross-body bag)? What did your daughter or her fellow musicians use? Thank you in advance!

    1. Hi Mia!

      Our violin-playing daughter wore the violin case like a backpack also. There is room inside for pencils and usually a small pocket on the outside. Our orchestra required the students to just use an inexpensive pocket folder for their sheet music since it needs to be able to be pulled out easily and rearranged.

      For a water bottle, we purchased one with a clip that would attack to the violin case strap! So the only thing in our daughter’s hand was the folder while the violin and bottle were on her back. Now, for our cello player, she had a lot more to deal with! 😉

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